How to find the suitable healer

In the current period of healing and coaching becoming a trend, the reason why so many people need to wake up, be led and realize the lessons of their souls is still related to the much larger context of life. the whole universe, not just an individual or a social category. This sounds a bit far-fetched, but in general, psychological and spiritual issues will be more and more focused, many people will be prone to depression, which is also an inevitable rule when material things are too much. (positive) then mental and emotional problems (yin) will need to be resolved to rebalance.

So this stage not only has many rich options but also becomes chaotic or as some call it a matrix, based on what criteria to find a method, a path, a right teacher? The right way to lead us out of the deadlock and back to our original peaceful nature is something that should be taken into account.

Before becoming a healer for others, I myself spent a few years as a healed subject, sometimes even now I still take advantage of the opportunity to be healed if fortunately encountered.

So learn from your own experience and what has worked for you or draw from other people, friends, students and customers. Here are some guidelines to help those who are confused on the path to healing make more informed choices and find the right mentor.

The healer should be someone who has the power and energy to heal, taking emotions as an indicator, trusting your own intuition is one of the right paths to the right healer. Your healer should give you the following feelings:

1. They speak the same language as you

The language here is not a mother tongue or a foreign language, but a voice of thought and faith. There are countless healing methods that approach in different directions under 3 main forms to serve the body-mind-mind, such as the body with yoga, eating raw, detoxifying, purifying the body..., the mind and the mind. there are religions such as Buddhism, Christianity, psychology or spiritual science. Even in spirituality, there are different directions such as past life regression, energy, or talismans .. Each approach to different objects. If you choose someone who doesn't have the same faith or voice as you, it is very difficult to express and carry out healing.

2. Seeing is heard

Listening is one of the most difficult skills that not all people with sufficient knowledge and experience have this ability. Listening is easy, but real listening requires an open heart, when people with healing energy listen, their energy gates open and they accept what you say, thus creating a new flow. healing energy movement, interaction between 2 people. So, being with someone with healing energy, even though they may not say anything, you can feel less stuck or uncomfortable emotions. You don't feel judged, or indifferent.

There are very good professionals, such as PhDs, professors, leading doctors, neurologists, psychologists.. to be honest, I have also tried, but every word they say sounds very cliché. Energy doesn't lie. They may sit there pretending to be listening to you, but they don't care much about your story or your pain. There are people who are engrossed in their knowledge show, you say, but they are ready to jump at your words at any moment.

And people can really listen to understand you, to see your problems, but not to judge or impose their ego on you. These people themselves have been working to cultivate their own energy protection, in order to listen with understanding but without being affected by their energy fields. The more unaffected they are, the more willing they are to listen and accept you.

Feeling accepted and respected, and not judged, is one of the first and right pointers to a successful healing process.

3. Feel Empathy

Not everyone has a "chance" to experience all the pain in life. There are many therapists who never know what addiction or depression is. This is not paramount, not mandatory. But if you are lucky enough to meet a guide who has also gone down the road you are on, there is a high chance that empathy will occur, and healing will take place more easily.

For example, if you go through a toxic relationship, a divorce, etc., maybe your healer has the tools, but they have not experienced it themselves, sometimes it is difficult for them to understand the feeling. your senses and keep up with your pace. They will have questions like “so why are you staying in that relationship and not leaving?” This is a typical question that doesn't help but makes you feel guilty about yourself.

Someone who has been through the opposite will better understand your journey and your reasons to help you untie those knots.

4. Feel trustworthy

Imagine that the mental blocks you are facing are similar to when you are groping in a pitch-black forest, full of obstacles and dangers. A person with a healing tool is like having a map of the forest in their hands, they know the way out, but they don't necessarily know all the unexpected dangers, traps that are not shown on the map. The map can be the knowledge, the methods learned in books, schools, degrees, courses, etc., but the actual experience is that people have healing energy. Only if they have ever known how to get out of there on their own, will they lead you out of the forest more smoothly. They know the nooks and crannies of the darkest places you can go through in the healing process. This makes you gain a certain trust.

5. Feel safe

You know that you can talk openly about everything with them, not only will you not feel judged, but they radiate a peaceful energy that puts you at ease during the healing session. You also know that your story and feelings are always respected and kept confidential.

6. Trully care

Genuine care when you know you're welcome if there's a problem, don't care, pretend to care, care for the sake of it, or only care when you pay. They care because they really want you to be better. There are a lot of coaches or healers nowadays who carry a fairly large amount of work, this is okay, but when it is too much to allow (because of running the target, for fear of losing customers), when it comes to reality, it is very indifferent. , cannot keep a close eye on the path and results of his subject or student. Or some people are different like successful people are happy (hit the ego because they are successful, they are good) but the silent / unsuccessful people are not even thought about. I think there should be a real connection between the client and the coach, between the subject and the healer, because the health and peace of the subject is the most important. This requires a mind, a customer care mindset and some arrangement skills.

7. The right solution

The person who leads or heals you is definitely not the person you confide in 100%, they can listen but let them have the space and opportunity to lead you. If we can't just listen, we can talk to things. But once you have found a coach or healer, the mentality needs to be clearly determined that you want to find a solution, want to get out of your deadlock, not simply find someone to listen. And to do this, you yourself determine to do this for yourself, you also have to put effort into the healing process. From the appearance, or practice according to the method, it has to be from two sides. Just like when you have body problems, you want to go to the gym, eat scientifically, to lose weight, you also need to follow some rules. A coach will keep you motivated by motivating you, while a healer can cure your procrastination, your unmotivated and thereby increase your self-motivation to achieve your goals. .

With the same mind, there are many forms of healing, different methods, finding yourself a suitable method to follow and achieve optimal effect is necessary. Connect and discuss the right method with your leader so they can fine-tune at the right time. Then commit to your journey and you will achieve very positive results that sometimes you do not even expect.

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